Victims of Sexual Abuse Working in the Sex Industry

Goddess Marple
2 min readJun 13, 2024

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The journey from sexual abuse to employment in the sex industry is deeply personal and complex. Many survivors of sexual abuse carry lasting emotional scars, affecting their self-esteem and mental health. They often feel intense shame, guilt, and worthlessness, which can distort their self-image and make forming healthy relationships difficult. This makes them more vulnerable to exploitation.

Mental health issues add to these challenges. Survivors are more likely to experience depression, anxiety, PTSD, and substance abuse. These conditions make it hard to hold stable, traditional jobs. The sex industry, with its flexible hours and quick money, might seem like a better option for those dealing with these mental health struggles. Substance abuse, often used to cope with trauma, creates a cycle where the need for money to buy drugs or alcohol keeps them in the industry, worsening their mental health.

Societal stigma further complicates matters. Victims of sexual abuse often face disbelief, blame, and social rejection. This lack of support can push them toward the sex industry, where they might find a more accepting community. Stigma around mental health issues also stops many from seeking help. Without support, they may see the sex industry as their best coping mechanism, reinforcing their isolation.

For some, entering the sex industry is about reclaiming control over their bodies and sexuality. After abuse, they may want to redefine their sexual identity on their terms. Choosing clients and setting boundaries can offer a sense of empowerment, even if the reality of the industry often challenges these feelings. They may also seek validation and self-worth through their work. The attention and money they receive can temporarily boost their self-esteem, though this validation is often fleeting and does not heal the underlying trauma.

Feelings of helplessness and powerlessness are common among survivors. This sense of helplessness can last long after the abuse ends, making it hard to imagine a future outside of their trauma. The sex industry can seem like the only option for those who feel trapped and unable to escape their past. Economic helplessness plays a role too. Survivors may lack the money, education, or job skills for other employment. This financial vulnerability, combined with feelings of helplessness, can make the sex industry seem like a last resort.

Understanding these factors is crucial. Recognizing the psychological trauma, mental health issues, societal stigma, and feelings of helplessness that lead survivors to the sex industry fosters empathy and informed dialogue. It helps reduce judgment and supports creating a more compassionate society for everyone, regardless of their past or present circumstances.

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Goddess Marple
Goddess Marple

Written by Goddess Marple

I'm a commanding force that will shape, control, and redefine your submission. I am as strict as I am nurturing, and my power is absolute.

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