Sex | Cunnilingus
Communicate Clearly
Start by talking to your partner. Ask what they like and what feels good for them. This shows you care about their pleasure and helps you give them exactly what they want.
Set the Mood
Create a comfortable and relaxed environment. Dim the lights, play some soft music, and make sure your partner feels at ease. A little foreplay goes a long way, so kiss, touch, and tease to build up the anticipation.
Start Slow
Begin with gentle kisses and licks around the thighs and outer lips. Tease them a bit before moving to the more sensitive areas. This slow build-up will drive your partner wild with anticipation.
Explore with Your Tongue
Use your tongue to explore the vulva. Lick up and down the inner lips, making sure to cover the entire area. Find out what strokes and patterns your partner enjoys most. You can try circles, zig-zags, or long, slow licks.
Focus on the Clitoris
The clitoris is incredibly sensitive and usually the main focus during oral sex. Use your tongue to gently flick, circle, or lightly suck on the clit. Pay attention to how your partner reacts and adjust your technique accordingly.
Use Your Hands
Your hands can add extra pleasure. Use your fingers to gently part the lips and expose the clitoris, or to penetrate the vagina while your mouth works on the clit. Find a rhythm that combines both actions for maximum pleasure.
Maintain Consistent Pressure
Once you find a technique that your partner enjoys, stick with it. Consistent pressure and rhythm are key to building up their pleasure. Avoid changing techniques too frequently, as this can interrupt the flow.
Pay Attention to the G-Spot
If your partner enjoys internal stimulation, use your fingers to locate and massage the G-spot. It’s usually about two inches inside the vagina, on the front wall. Curl your fingers in a “come hither” motion while your mouth continues to work on the clit.
Keep It Wet
Moisture is important. Keep your mouth and tongue wet to enhance the sensation. If you need more lubrication, don’t hesitate to use a flavored lube.
Listen and Respond
Pay attention to your partner’s cues. Moans, body movements, and verbal feedback will guide you. If they seem to love a particular technique, keep it up. If they’re not responding as much, try something different.
Don’t Rush the Finish
Let your partner take their time to reach orgasm. Keep up the stimulation and maintain a steady rhythm. When they’re close, stay consistent and let them ride the wave to climax.
