I’m A Survivor of SAs
As a professional dominatrix and a survivor of sexual abuse, my work is incredibly empowering. Being able to control the chastity and orgasms of my submissives helps me reclaim the power and autonomy that were taken from me in the past.
One of the most empowering parts of my job is the control I have over my submissives’ chastity and orgasms. This control allows me to set clear boundaries and reinforce my authority, transforming past feelings of helplessness into a present sense of empowerment. By deciding when, how, and if my submissives experience pleasure, I remind myself that I am in charge.
Consent and respect are the cornerstones of my interactions. Both my submissives and I agree to the boundaries and limits, ensuring a safe and consensual power exchange. This is crucial because it allows me to explore and assert my dominance in a positive and affirming way, turning control into a healing experience rather than a harmful one.
Controlling my submissives’ chastity and orgasms also helps me explore my own sexuality on my terms. It’s empowering to create a space where my pleasure and preferences come first, fostering a sense of security and self-worth. These routines aren’t just about physical acts — they’re deeply connected to psychological and emotional healing, reinforcing my sense of agency and strength.
Every session is a step towards rewriting my narrative from victimhood to strength. The rituals of dominance and submission become acts of reclamation, allowing me to navigate power dynamics in a way that feels affirming and liberating. My work helps me to redefine my relationship with power and control, offering a unique sense of closure and healing.
Being a dominatrix is not just a job for me; it’s a testament to my resilience. It allows me to transform pain into empowerment and harness my past experiences into a profession that celebrates my strength and autonomy. Through my work, I empower myself and create spaces for my submissives to explore and grow, fostering a dynamic of mutual respect and empowerment.
