20 of the Most Common Types of BDSM Submissives

Goddess Marple
4 min readJul 8, 2024

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Here are 20 of the most common types of BDSM submissives in no particular order:

1. The Brat

- Behavior: Playfully defiant, enjoys challenging authority.

- Preferred Treatment: Firm discipline and correction.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone who enjoys playful resistance and is skilled in maintaining control.

- Activities Enjoyed: Roleplay scenarios where they can provoke and be disciplined, playful teasing, light-hearted punishments.

2. The Service Submissive

- Behavior: Eager to please, attentive to their dominant’s needs.

- Preferred Treatment: Positive reinforcement and appreciation for their efforts.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone who values acts of service and provides clear instructions.

- Activities Enjoyed: Domestic chores, personal care tasks, running errands.

3. The Masochist

- Behavior: Seeks physical pain or discomfort.

- Preferred Treatment: Controlled and consensual infliction of pain.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone skilled in safe pain play techniques.

- Activities Enjoyed: Spanking, flogging, wax play, impact play.

4. The Pet

- Behavior: Adopts animal-like behaviors and characteristics.

- Preferred Treatment: Caring and training in line with their chosen animal role.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone nurturing yet firm, who enjoys animal roleplay.

- Activities Enjoyed: Pet play, training exercises, using toys and props like collars and leashes.

5. The Little

- Behavior: Embraces a childlike or youthful persona.

- Preferred Treatment: Nurturing, structured guidance, and affection.

- Dominatrix Sought: A caregiver-type dominant who enjoys providing structure and care.

- Activities Enjoyed: Coloring, playing with toys, bedtime stories, and age-appropriate discipline.

6. The Rope Bunny

- Behavior: Enjoys being restrained and tied up.

- Preferred Treatment: Intricate and creative bondage.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone skilled in rope work and bondage techniques.

- Activities Enjoyed: Shibari, suspension bondage, decorative rope work.

7. The Degradation Submissive

- Behavior: Seeks verbal humiliation and degradation.

- Preferred Treatment: Consensual demeaning language and actions.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone comfortable with and skilled in verbal humiliation.

- Activities Enjoyed: Objectification, verbal degradation, public humiliation scenes.

8. The Financial Submissive

- Behavior: Enjoys relinquishing control over finances.

- Preferred Treatment: Financial control and decision-making by the dominant.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone trustworthy and responsible, who understands financial domination.

- Activities Enjoyed: Giving gifts, paying bills, financial planning under the dominant’s control.

9. The Sissy or Feminization Submissive

- Behavior: Enjoys exploring and embodying femininity.

- Preferred Treatment: Guidance and encouragement in adopting feminine roles.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone who enjoys feminization and gender role exploration.

- Activities Enjoyed: Dressing in feminine clothing, makeup sessions, learning feminine behaviors.

10. The Masochistic Baby Girl

- Behavior: Combines elements of masochism and age play.

- Preferred Treatment: Nurturing care mixed with physical discipline.

- Dominatrix Sought: A caregiver who also enjoys administering pain.

- Activities Enjoyed: Spanking, gentle care routines, age play with disciplinary elements.

11. The Slave

- Behavior: Desires complete submission and relinquishment of control.

- Preferred Treatment: Total power exchange and strict rules.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone who values and can handle total control.

- Activities Enjoyed: Obedience training, protocol adherence, complete surrender of decision-making.

12. The Pain Slut

- Behavior: Seeks intense physical sensations and pain.

- Preferred Treatment: High-intensity pain play.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone experienced in administering extreme forms of pain.

- Activities Enjoyed: Extreme impact play, needle play, CBT (cock and ball torture).

13. The Pleasure Submissive

- Behavior: Derives satisfaction from being used for sexual pleasure.

- Preferred Treatment: Activities focused on providing sexual gratification.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone who enjoys using their submissive for sexual pleasure.

- Activities Enjoyed: Oral servitude, sexual teasing and denial, being a sexual object.

14. The Exhibitionist

- Behavior: Enjoys being watched or displayed.

- Preferred Treatment: Scenarios that involve exposure and performance.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone who enjoys public or semi-public play.

- Activities Enjoyed: Public nudity, performing sexual acts in front of an audience, being displayed.

15. The Voyeuristic Submissive

- Behavior: Derives pleasure from watching others.

- Preferred Treatment: Opportunities to observe sexual or BDSM activities.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone who incorporates voyeurism into their scenes.

- Activities Enjoyed: Watching other couples, being present during scenes, observing their dominant.

16. The Hypno Submissive

- Behavior: Enjoys the psychological aspects of hypnosis and mind control.

- Preferred Treatment: Hypnosis sessions and mind control play.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone skilled in hypnotherapy and suggestive control.

- Activities Enjoyed: Hypnosis, guided imagery, following post-hypnotic suggestions.

17. The Doll

- Behavior: Embraces objectification and being controlled like a doll.

- Preferred Treatment: Dressing up and posing, being treated as an inanimate object.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone who enjoys control and aesthetic manipulation.

- Activities Enjoyed: Dressing in elaborate outfits, being posed and displayed, remaining still and compliant.

18. The Domestic Submissive

- Behavior: Focuses on domestic chores and homemaking.

- Preferred Treatment: Structured and appreciated household tasks.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone who values a well-kept home and organized domestic environment.

- Activities Enjoyed: Cleaning, cooking, household management, organizing.

19. The Primal Prey

- Behavior: Enjoys raw, instinctual play involving chase and capture.

- Preferred Treatment: Predatory and chase scenarios.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone who enjoys primal play and the thrill of the hunt.

- Activities Enjoyed: Chase and capture games, wrestling, primal roleplay.

20. The Sensory Deprivation Submissive

- Behavior: Enjoys the removal or limitation of one or more senses.

- Preferred Treatment: Sensory deprivation to heighten other senses and vulnerability.

- Dominatrix Sought: Someone skilled in sensory play.

- Activities Enjoyed: Use of blindfolds, earplugs, isolation, and sensory restriction.

Share in the commments if you fall in any of the types I listed. You can also share if your submissive type isn’t included in the list.

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Goddess Marple
Goddess Marple

Written by Goddess Marple

I'm a commanding force that will shape, control, and redefine your submission. I am as strict as I am nurturing, and my power is absolute.

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